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Getting married? Looking for a sassy fun loving celebrant you will feel comfortable with? Look no further!


What does a celebrant do?


Looks like an easy job, right?  Surely they just rock up talk for 20 minutes and go home!

Let me tell you, I have been a celebrant for 11 years and I still spend a lot of time before every ceremony checking everything and reading through the ceremony again to make sure I am happy.  It is their wedding day, they have planned for months for this moment and what I say and do on the day also has to be perfect, and legal!  There is a lot of behind the scenes preparation.  There will have been meetings to commence legal paperwork and to discuss the content for their unique personal ceremony.  I provide many resources to help with the process and encourage input re writing their own vows, including children in the ceremony, providing information on rituals, symbols, music etc.  I also encourage couples to have a rehearsal at the venue to help calm the nerves.

On the day of the wedding I arrive at least half an hour early to set up my P.A system and legal documents.  I check to make sure everything is perfect, greet guests, calm groom and groomsmen, greet bride and bridal party.  Liaise with wedding coordinator,  organise music, bridal party, flower girls, page boys, ring bearer, readers.

After the marriage ceremony I lodge your marriage documents with the BDM and securely keep all of the necessary legal documents.  I also have to keep my office running, answering emails, phone calls, writing invoices, receipts, bookkeeping, printing, filing, purchasing legal stationery,  websites, social media, advertising.

All celebrants must have completed at least a Certificate IV in Celebrancy before they can apply to the Attorney General to become registered.  The initial registration fee is $600.  They are then required to pay an annual fee of $240 to stay registered. All celebrants are required to attend Ongoing Professional Development or they will lose their registration. They are also required to have professional indemnity insurance.  So, whilst you might only see the Celebrant for 20 minutes whilst the ceremony is happening, please be assured that they have worked very hard before the ceremony even starts.


Baby Naming

Naming-pic1I conducted a name giving ceremony last week for a three month old baby and thought again, what a lovely celebration for the parents, grandparents, uncles aunties, siblings, cousins and friends.

As more and more people are moving away from religious ceremonies, baby christenings are not performed as much and parents are preferring to have a civil ceremony to name and celebrate the birth of their child.   It is a lovely happy occasion with the appointing of Godparents or guardians and the presentation of certificates.

If this appeals to you don’t hesitate to discuss with me and we can create a personalised ceremony to celebrate the birth of your child.

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Perfect weather for weddings!

IMG_3123IMG_3132I just spent a week in Noumea.  Our hotel was 50 metres from the beach and we had a balcony overlooking the coast.  Every morning we woke up to a beautiful blue sky and we went out for breakfast in the fresh morning air.  By the time we headed out for our activities for the day it was a gorgeous 25 to 27 degrees and by the evening it was a little cooler to get a good night’s sleep.

Always having weddings on my mind it occurred to me how wonderful it would be if we  could have weather like that for a few months of the year!  It would take away all that stress of having an outside venue and always having to back it up with plan B!



Spring weddings!

The weather is warming up and I am looking forward to the spring wedding season.  I have freshened up my website and have been busy organizing my office to have everything ready for the busy season.  My couples for the Spring season are all very different so every wedding is a challenge which I really enjoy!

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Nathan and Erica’s secret wedding – and then 2 more ceremonies!


Nathan and Erica had a very small intimate ceremony in their backyard and very few people knew about it.  He did a wonderful job decorating his backyard in Melbourne and creating a lovely intimate atmosphere for his marriage to Erica.

Erica was from Taiwan so after their legal ceremony in Melbourne they celebrated again in traditional Taiwanese fashion!  There were many frocks involved for the pre wedding party and another frock for the main ceremony.  It was a grand occasion!

See my website for information on small intimate weddings.


Chris and Kristen’s wedding in the park

Chris and Kristen wanted a very short simple and casual ceremony with their friends and family in St Kilda Botanical Gardens.  It was a beautiful day and the park had a lovely relaxed atmosphere with many people enjoying the sunshine.  They arranged for me to come at a pre arranged time when the festivities were already in progress.  I performed the ceremony with minimum amount of fuss and the celebrations continued!

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Beach Weddings


Beach weddings look beautiful but with Melbourne’s unpredictable weather make sure you have a plan B!  You will need to seriously consider your alternative plan not only if it is very cold, wet and windy but also in the extreme heat.  Be mindful that your guests will have arrived a lot earlier than the bridal party so try to arrive on time and you may need to have some shelter and refreshments available!




Romantic beach wedding Nayani and Dinesh


Nayani and DineshNayani and Dinesh were married with their feet in the sand on a glorious February day at West Beach Bathers Pavilion in St Kilda.

….”It was always Nayani and Dinesh’ dream to be married near the beach in summer, with their family and special friends here to help celebrate with them.”

In the bridal party there were three groomsmen, three bridesmaids and a flower girl and pageboy in glorious peach and white shades.

…Today is a celebration.  A celebration of love, of commitment, of friendship, of family, and of two people who are in it for forever.

Today is a time to pause, look back, and smile at all the moments that brought you here. And a time to look ahead at all the moments that are still to come…

In Nayani’s words:  “Dinesh is cute, kind and caring.  We first met at the Diwali Cultural festival through our common friend Raj who is the best man here today! It all started after we both bumped into each other again at Southland Shopping centre. A magical love at first site moment, the chemistry was there from the start and we exchanged numbers. We think alike and are always on the same page and wave length. We have this weird connection which we can’t explain and we truly believe that fate plays a big part in our relationship.

“We are getting married because we always wanted to do everything right and make sure it was done perfectly. Once we tie the knot we want to start our own family and have a name for ourselves as a real family and have lots of children!

In Dinesh’ words: “Nayani is also cute, nice and giving, and both our goals for happy marriage is to not change what we have going right now, except maybe listen and communicate better!

We realised straight away that we were meant to be. We had the same beliefs and traditions and we just clicked and had heaps of the same interests. We were from the same country and Town, culture, religion and Language so our relationship developed easily and comfortably.”

The Vows

(Celebrant) You fell in love by chance, but you’re here today because you’re making a choice. You both are choosing each other. You’ve chosen to be with someone who enhances you, who makes you think, makes you smile, and makes every day brighter.


“to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better for worse, for richer for poorer, in sickness and in health, as long as we both shall live.

…. Giving you this ring means that I give myself to you, it is a symbol of the love that I pledge.


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