Baby Naming

Naming-pic1I conducted a name giving ceremony last week for a three month old baby and thought again, what a lovely celebration for the parents, grandparents, uncles aunties, siblings, cousins and friends.

As more and more people are moving away from religious ceremonies, baby christenings are not performed as much and parents are preferring to have a civil ceremony to name and celebrate the birth of their child.   It is a lovely happy occasion with the appointing of Godparents or guardians and the presentation of certificates.

If this appeals to you don’t hesitate to discuss with me and we can create a personalised ceremony to celebrate the birth of your child.

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Personalised marriage ceremonies Gabriele and Gerrit A procession and two wedding dresses!

Gabriele and I have been friends for many years, we met at choir and enjoyed being choir buddies for many years.  We were also both nurses so had another common interest.  We shared a room when our choir travelled to Perth many years ago and got to know each other very well.

I had heard a lot about Gerrit her new man and I was very excited when Gabriele told me they were engaged and thrilled when she asked me to officiate at the ceremony.  She and Gerrit had firm ideas of the run of the events for the day and it was all organized very quickly.

They wanted a prewinter date so they were married on 27th May this year.  We all met at their house beforehand for drinks and nibbles.  We then “processed” the short walk to the hotel where the ceremony and reception were held. The neighbours all came out to cheer us on and it was a lot of fun!





Ceremony excerpts:

……When planning the ceremony with Gabriele and Gerrit it became quite apparent that they did not want anything too formal or too traditional and they wanted as much involvement from their friends and family as possible, which I think is testament to the way they live their lives in general, with many of us being privy to their hospitality, warmth and generosity over the years.

Personal story

I asked Gerrit and Gabriele to tell me a little about their relationship and what making a commitment means to them.  In fact, I gave them a whole list of questions:  Gabriele promptly answered them in her quick decisive manner.  I must say Gerrit did agree with her answers!

…..One thing came through loud and clear: three values are very important to them and they are: honesty, respect and trust…..the qualities they most treasure about each other are their love, openness and directness.

Their goals for a happy marriage include the ability to maintain their own identity, also trust, honesty, communication and fun and laughter.  And for their children they believe their marriage will provide a safe and secure space from which they will venture forth and fulfil their dreams.

In Gabriele’s words:

Gerrit is passionate and enthusiastic in his endeavours. he is sensitive, always cries at movies and is very loving. He is happy to try new things and is adventurous. He likes my cooking. He is open to saying yes.  Life will never be boring with him.

Memorable times.

Our first date was on a rainy night at the Radisson, when I was late for choir rehearsal afterwards. I noticed his good table manners and passion for skiing.  Gerrit was very nervous, and continued to be nervous for our next few dates. We went 5 Rhythms dancing on a few choir free Tuesday nights (child free evenings), which were a fun physical release and a way of getting to know each other.

At our first date, Gerrit reignited my skiing passion. A few practice sessions at Ski City set me up for a few weekends in Mt Buller where Gerrit worked winters.  I remember how excited Gerrit was that I could ski!  The kids tried and enjoyed skiing too……….

Appreciation of music is a strong bond. Both of us love our Tuesday nights. I’m at choir (RMP) and Gerrit rehearses with his band. We try to get out and hear some live music, whenever we can.

Gerrit is dedicated and devoted to Gabriele.  He dutifully sent me the answers to my list of questions about Gabriele and their relationship.  On their first date he also remembered it was raining and the big hug he got……………He loved their lunchtime dates and meeting and spending time with Gabriele’s children.  He also enjoys their times skiing and dancing….

Their three children all participated in the ceremony:  Gerrit’s son Grant was the ring bearer and Gabriele’s two daughters, Erica and Sophia did readings.  They all took part in the unity candle ceremony.


Poem for a Mother’s wedding Robyn O’Connell  read by Erica

Who would have thought, that there would come a time

When I would be standing at your wedding, rather than you being at mine?

That day will come, as sure as can be

But for now, it’s my turn and look what I see

A mum that has been there, through thick and through thin

And now here you stand, your face in a grin

The wish that I bring for my mother right now

Is health and happiness, as you take your wedding vow

So, to you dear Mum, what more can I say?

Than to love the dear friend you have beside you today

I hope you both are as happy, as you can ever can be

Knowing much love comes from your daughter – that’s me!

Once upon a time you two met You’ve shared much love and laughter May your marriage be a fairy tale Happy ever after

I’m glad I’m in the fairy tale And you are too I guess Congratulations, King and Queen From your fairy tale Princess.


Reading: What is a family Author unknown read by Sophia

A family is…

The sweetest feelings  the warmest hugs,  trust and togetherness

Unconditional love,the stories of our lives written on the same page

The nicest memories anyone has ever made, treasured photos

Thankful tears, hearts overflowing with all the years

Being there for one another, supporting and caring

Understanding, helping, sharing,

Walking life’s path together and making the journey more beautiful because…

We are a family, and a family is love.


Candle ceremony

Our family

(Gerrit)  Beginning our new life together does not mean that we will forget the lives we leave behind

It was that past that brought us here, without it we would not have our children

And all the happy memories of their growing into the young people that we are so very proud of…

(Gabriele)  As we light these candles we extend the love w”e share for each other to encompass Grant, Sophia and Erica

And ask them to light a candle and place it in this circle as a symbol of the joining of our families.

We all had a fun night with lots of dancing and good food.  I wish you a wonderful future together!

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Two very different weddings

IMG_1461IMG_1465This weekend’s weddings were very different.  Yesterdays was in a beautiful rustic bush setting at Mt Evelyn in front of a little waterfall.  The bride had flowers in her hair and held a large bouquet to match.  They had the ritual of the unity vase where they united the families by combining items of significance.  The bride poured American dirt and then the groom poured Australian dirt.  The bride’s mother placed stones from the park where her father’s ashes were scattered. The bride’s father placed dried impatiens, his mother’s favourite flower.  The groom’s mother placed seashells from The Gold Coast where she grew up and the groom’s father placed a prayer book he was given by his father, which symbolized the role music and the church played in his education.  The bride wore green and white spotted shoes and had a green ribbon to finish the back of her dress. The bridesmaids wore varying shades of green.  All in all it all blended in beautifully with the natural setting.  A lot of thought and planning went into the day. Congratulations Jackson and Sarah!  Stay tuned tomorrow for the story of today’s wedding

wedding rehearsal

I have just returned from a wedding rehearsal which was held in a local park under a big rotunda.  It was in the shade with a breeze and was very pleasant.  I managed to squeeze the you tube videos onto my ipod  yesterday with my son’s help which was a relief.  However when I arrived I plugged the ipod into my P.A system to find it had completely jammed!  Fortunately I remembered the trick to get it working again.  Everything went smoothly at the rehearsal so I am looking forward to their wedding day next Saturday.  Rehearsals are great to iron out little problems and quite often it is not until the day of the rehearsal that everything becomes very real for the bride and groom and they become quite emotional.  I never go through the ceremony word for word but just run through the basic structure of the ceremony so as not to spoil it for the big day.  I also get the bridal party to practise their walk in with the music and work out the best positions for everyone to stand.  It makes everyone more relaxed when they can visualise how it will all come together.

My hero

Why did he have to get sick now

We were such great soul mates

He’s my hero said Anne and Jill

Joanne his wife agrees

A big strong tall and modest man

Quietly confident

Didn’t like to boast or self promote

And loved his music too

Adored his beautiful wife Joanne

And his girls Jill and Anne

Don’t forget Mandy and Laura

Terrific Thomas too

Monster Max and funny Philip

Grandad doted on them

We’d walk on the beach said Joanne

With the wind in our hair

Was that only last week he asked

Listen to me please dear

And Joanne listened she knew then

Singing dancing were so much fun

Friends were important too

The best husband, Dad and Grandad

In the entire universe

And wonderful times with Joanne

travelling by his side

Always felt safe and loved by Steve

Gentle caring and true



Why can’t hemlines be straight

What is this new idea of late

The hem is up a little then down

Then around to the side like clown

I like the hem to be perfectly straight

Fashion goes round and round as

The years flash by now

The look is up then it is down or short and feisty

Or more

Like a clown

Why can’t hemlines be

Straight up

And down